Take Attraction Action!
So there you are, out and about, walking around during a typical day. You walk into your favorite grocery store. At the other end of the produce section you spot someone to whom you are attracted.
They look at you. You look at them. A momentary glance passes between you. The question is what are you going to do with that? Most of us don't do anything. Why do so we hesitate to take action in this situation? We are thinking about what we could say; it has to be perfect; I need the right approach. We tend to worry too much about how that other person will perceive us, wondering whether that person will be impressed by us. The fact of the matter is that they already are. They've looked at you. You've already exchanged that glance.
We are all familiar with that momentary glance. We've all experienced it. It is what you do with it that shapes and creates your life. Most of us walk away saying to ourselves “Well, I don't know the right thing to say.” Or we’ll tell ourselves that glance was at somebody else.
They were looking at you! All you need to do is acknowledge it with a simple “Hello,” “How's your day going?” or something else simple like that. Just say something – say anything! It doesn't really matter what you say. They already put themselves out there by looking at you, and you have put yourself out there by looking at them.
So why not take that one small extra step and do something about that attraction. Take attraction action . . . you never know where that next simple “hello” may lead.
All the power to you,
David Wygant
what I' ve learned from a great person, a person who did take the challenge to reach the "other side", is that we worry so much about tomorrow, about the vague future, we only tend to lose what there in fron of us.
Did anyone really promised us that there in going to be one?
And that doesn't come from a pessimistic view, on the contrary!!
Try to chase away ur worries about how people see you, you only end up putting chains to what u could evolve to.
P.s. all these moments of struggling will they really matter after lets say 2 years
Do what u feel is going to free you!!
Embarrassing moments don;t last that long...
I am the person that never knows what to say and waits for someone else to make the first move. I know that is no way to live seeing right now I am looking for some women friendships. I feel alone and I am tired of it.