The Right Answer is "Who Cares?!"

David Wygant  Attraction and Dating Expert

     Recently I was hanging out in Whole Foods with a couple of clients.  There was a woman who was standing near the fruit while I was picking out a peach.  I looked at her and I said, "Man, these really don't smell at all." 

     She said . . . absolutely nothing.  She went into total mute mode.

     So what did I do?  Absolutely nothing!

     I didn't really care.  It didn't really make much of a difference to me.  What does it matter to me?  My clients asked me "Well, what could you have done differently? What happened?"

     My answer to them was this: "Who cares?  Let it go.  She just didn't respond.  I approached her with an observation and she simply didn't respond.  Do you really want to hang out with somebody who doesn't talk to you?  Do you want to hang out with a mute?"

     The truth is that in a situation like this, it doesn't make much of a difference why a woman doesn't respond to you.  You may never know. 

     In the time the guys spent analyzing why that one woman didn't respond, they missed four other cute women standing by the salad bar checking us out.  While they were so busy wondering what I could have done differently, they missed the next opportunity. 

     Your feeling about an interaction like I had should be, "Who cares?!"  You need to stop having the attitude that you need to be successful in 100% of your interactions with women or that you can "get them all. 

     Think about it.  Why would you really want to get them all?  Do you really have so much time that you're able to date them all?

     You want to get the gems.  You want to go for the women who respond to you, not the ones who ignore you. 

     That woman by the peaches ignored me.  I don't care.  If you asked me now what she looked like, I probably couldn't even tell you anymore.  Life moves on, and so should you.  Remember, life is a marathon not a sprint. 

     So from this point forward if a woman doesn't respond to you when you've done everything right, then you should always say to yourself "Who cares?!" and move on!  There are plenty of other women out there.  Life starts again from the second that woman blows you off.  At that very moment you have the opportunity to see what other opportunities are waiting out there for you!

All the power to you.