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Women Look From Inside Out

 

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            Think about this: there’s a woman you are friends with and she convinces you to go on a blind date. How many times has that happened?

 

            Or, a woman friend is throwing a party. She tells you all of her good-looking friends are going to be there. You go to the party, you look around, and you say to her, “Well, where are all of your good-looking friends?” and she says, “They’re all here!”

 

            This biggest clue that men can take from this is that fundamentally women view all of their friends as beautiful. That’s what they do: they look from the inside out – while men look from the outside in.

 

            This is something that men don’t grasp. Looking at the way women see their friends, you might not find them appealing; yet women find them incredibly sexy and beautiful.

 

            Basically, it’s the same exact thing when women look at a man. You can never compare yourself to other guys, because women will look at you from the inside out. They don’t know that they’re attracted to you until they meet you. That’s what is phenomenal.

 

             Let your inside shine!

 

David Wygant


 

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Ria Ria at Fri, May 23 06:42 AM:

I would like to believe that both woman and men see from the inside out.

But in reality the outside more then often is a reflection of your inside.

Internal love leads to external beauty. 

Wordsmith Wordsmith at Fri, May 23 07:05 AM:

 

What Mr. Wygant has written is based on a very narrow and, if I may say so, sexist stereotype.  As such, I find this just the slightest bit offensive as it diminishes the sensibilities of males in our society.  In fact, our culture is rife with just such incorrect stereotypes which suggest that men are shallow and insensitive to anything deeper than outward appearances.

 

In fact, I see the people in my world exactly as Mr. Wygant suggests that only women see people.  So do most of the males I know.  In my world at least, we are not the exception but the rule.  When I meet anyone, including a woman, I look for the inner person, and that's who I relate to.  That inner realm is where I find the true beauty that resides on each of us.  In my opinion, most men also look from the inside out.  

 

How often will you see a man with a woman some might consider outwardly homely, clearly very much in love with her, and wonder what he sees in her?  There's the key, Mr. Wygant: he sees something in her that is very beautiful. 

 

Please, Mr. Wygant, do not state narrow stereotypes as absolutes.  If you have a poor self-image of yourself as a man, please do not apply that view to the rest of us.  Men and women are not so different as you might imagine.

 

Oh, and all of my friends are beautiful, Mr. Wygant. 

 

Karen54 Karen54 at Mon, Jun 02 07:25 AM:

To paraphrase Jesus, to get to heaven you have to see life as a little child.  I love working with little children.   I can feel that they think I am beautiful.   And I think they are, too.   When I was young every door was opened or me, I never had to worry about anything being too heavy.  Now that I am older, and out of shape, that isn't always so.  I tend to agree with Mr. Wygant  for the majority of people working in the public... or looking for a mate.  And I agree with Wordsmith.   There are both types of people. I get to be the child-like one.