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Breakthroughs: How Does It Work? »
15 THINGS THAT HAVE CHANGED SINCE I STARTED TOOLS I have a pile of achievements I have made since I started Tools, and as I am on day 74, I thought it was time to list them!!! 1) I get up on time. This may sound small, but getting rid of the habit took two weeks to get to consistentl »
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Tags: Time Management, Environment, Focus, Goal Setting, Motivation, relationships
As I was preparing to separate from my current wife (divorce papers signed recently), an old flame called me from a city about 2 hours away. Hadn't seen her for some 20 years! "Why now?" I asked. Then found out she divorced some 4 years ago. and had contacted my ex-wife (No.1) We »
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This weekend I admitted a 58 yr old man with metastatic gallbladder cancer. He came to my hospice on Friday evening from the hospital. His wife, children, twin brother, sisters-in-laws and many other family members followed the ambo and on Friday he was quiet but I knew he was liste »
It's appropriate today's lesson (Day 61) is on drugs, because I've been struggling with a relationship that is as addictive and destructive as any illegal substance... A few days ago I even messaged him:I want u bad toobut you're like crack: a hell of a great rushbut not good fo »
Well I had situation with my mother after I was telling my parents what I learned at my course, The Choices for better relationships.At lunch she argued with me and I was explaining about how you can end up in be seen as box, which you use the person as an object. I told her just right there and the »
On August 1st ran into my X, I approached her and we had a civil conversation. I was able to control the desire to ask questions that would be uncomfortable for her to answer. Furthermore, I was also able to be fair to myself in my feelings and keep an even emotional keel as well. This is »
I've discovered how to attract more positive relationships into my life. It's not as hard as I think! As we travel through our life's journey, many relationships will come into our lives. Some of them will be wonderful and long lasting; others, unfortunately, may be short term or unhappy »
Well I sat down with my wife last night and owned up to all the little things I've been doing or not doing that drive her crazy. I accepted responsibility and explained what I was going to do to change. Not huge, earth-moving changes, but easy simple ones that will make home life a l »
I was filling in my Complaints Log TOOL today, catching up for the last few days. And I notice they're really trivial things, and give you such ugly thoughts. I wanted things to be perfect, I wanted things the way I wanted them, and not considered the way others may want things. Th »
