Clean Clutter. My downfall is cleaning my house when both my husband and I are the same.  Everything is cluttered, dusty because there's so much to dust, rugs that need to be vacuumed & shampooed, but there's so much furniture in the way and having a dog things get back to the same state within a week.  The walls need to be tsp'ed (trisodiumphosphate) because we were both smokers and there is grime.  I resent that the housework falls all on me and therefore it doesn't get done!  So take 20 minutes and clean one counter off by sorting by need, undecided, trash, and then file the important things like paid bills and unpaid bills, stack the undecided, throw away the trash.  Do this every day until you can see your desk or countertop or table or floor or whatever flat area once was that can be again!  (PS:  this is more a challenge for myself than it is for anyone else, but I'd love the company...you know misery loves company)  But I did get some wonderful advice for changing it into something positive...is to let your mind wander to things you need to work on or tell yourself how wonderful you will feel seeing an uncluttered home or change that negative feeling into a positive and see the results of your life)