I have been listening to Ellismate for the last 18 months and he has become sort of a rock in my life.  When he says "Harden the F*ck up," I think WE all know what he is really saying and that is to TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.  I always thought I had complete control of my life, But i was very wrong.  Recently I have become victim of circumstance and it really made me look at myself as to what I needed to change.  There were no victims, bad luck or any of the sort, just bad decisions that I was making.  I started TOOLS to here and LISTEN to my inner voice.  17 days in I can tell you that although there are things that I certainly have not perfected, there are MANY things I am substantially better at and I can feel it!  I am excited to continue my journey because I know what I am capable of.  I've shown and done it before.  Now it is time to put up or shut up and I hate losing, especially to myself. Won't happen, determination ALWAYS prevails.

Red Dragons Mates....Do your Tools, don't Die and live life!