hello - added: Sat, Sep 03 10:05 AM

Greeting From Tina
How are you today? and how about your health? hope fine and you are doing well, My Name Is Miss Tina, I am looking for a very nice man of love, caring, honest, matured, understanding, and of good character, then after going to your profile on this site (toolstolife.com) i pick interest in you, so i will like you to write me with My E-mail address is ( tinababy_9t@yahoo.com ) so that i will send you my picture and tell you more about me
Miss Tina

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Thank you all! - added: Thu, May 13 08:55 AM

I don't know why I was send this thread but I sure needed it! Thank you laughalot for starting the thread and thank you angel_no.60 for you fab reply!

I've read the secret many times and I've also read a lot of books written by the Hicks. You see, I met this many at the end of last summer and we fell in love very quickly. I have a difficulties falling in love and when I fall in love it usually takes time, but this time it went fast. We were going stead (if I may call it that) after only 2 weeks. I felt that I had for once met someone who was just like me only the opposite sex! We live about 5 hours by car apart from each other so we could only see each other on weekends which was tough. He has not been in a relationship for 5 years... which was also a bit of a problem as he was very used to be on his own all the time. I gave him a lot of space and we had a lovely fall together. However I worked way to much and I wasn't happy with my situation at work at all (currently working on finding a new job). It was all to much for me and for some reason I felt something was wrong and I needed a change so I broke up with the love of my life! I quickly change my mind but he didn't feel the same way.

After 3 weeks of not talking I called him and told him who much I wanted to be with him and how sorry I was for breaking up with him. I told him I wanted him to think of giving the relationship another try. He said he would think about it and we would talk after a few days. He never called me back. I called him after another 3 weeks. He didn't speak a word of our last conversation. Then I went for a weeks vacation and more time past. I called him again after 3 weeks and he remembered I had been on a vacation and we talked of all kinds of things and decided to meet up the following weekend. We met up, had a good time even though I hurt so much to see him because I love him so much (I've never told him I love him..). Then we decided to try to see each other more often to see if there was something to build on. Not a single phone call from him. I called him again after 3 weeks, we talked briefly and decided to meet the following weekend. I told him he had to call me and he said he would.

This is when I started to read all the books written by the Hicks. You see he is all I've ever asked for I have finally found somebody I love. I know we are ment to be and I really want to be with him. I've been on other dates since we broke up at the end of Jan. But I just want to be with him, no one can compare. I've never been so happy in a relationship as I was last fall. It was everything else that was wrong and I didn't see it. I called him 2 weeks ago and he didn't answere so I left a message and he hasn't gotten back to me yet.

I am thinking about him every day, how much I want him to call me or text me. I try to visualize the two of us together I can even some times feel an engagement ring on my finger (silly I know..) but I really want this. Maybe my problem is I am thinking to much "will he call me today?!" or "only if he would text me today!". I can't get the thought "how the heck am I going to get him to contact me" out of my head! I have to let go and I guess that's when he will get in touch with me.. Right?

Just like angel_no.60 says I try to be with people who can support me and teach me new thing and also make me feel better. My friends tell me all the time how positive I am. I feel strong and I try to make plans with friends to have things to look forward to. Yet every time I think of making these plans with him... I want to experience and learn new things with him.

Please angel_no.60 give me your wise thoughts on how to manifest this. I really want this!

Thank you! And laughalot thank you again good luck to you! If you have any advice to give me please I will gladely listen!

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Reply to your comment - added: Thu, May 13 04:06 AM

Hi angel no 60, just wanted to say thank you so much for this information, it was perfect and just what I needed to hear. THANK YOU.

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Does this help? - added: Wed, May 12 06:15 AM

Well, here's three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or
tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start
manifesting like a pro.

1. Allow Yourself To Receive

Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks,
"Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can
you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?" Well, if the child goes
on and on asking, the police officer can't even give an answer,
right?

Well, it's the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your
mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe -- which
is trying to respond -- can't give you a single thing because you're
not allowing yourself to receive!

So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by
running around person to person begging for riches, and then
wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It's
because you're running away too fast for them before they can even
reach for their wallets).

Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and
trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it
is you asked for) when the time is right.

2. Be Patient With Yourself

Receiving takes time.

Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish
line because they've decided that if it's not working by now, it's
never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more
and more energy because they think that with more resources, the
results will come faster.

This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in
1 month. You also can't bake cookies in half the time by doubling
the temperature. You'll incinerate those cookies to ashes!

In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development
time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you
throw at it.

So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the
universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you
cannot change the natural development time.

If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into
frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of
negativity.

3. Support and Educate Yourself

Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You
also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to
look up to.

Many people give up because they think that "The Secret" is the "be
all and end all" solution. Well, it's NOT. "The Secret" is just a
small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole
answer.

Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn't work
when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch "The Secret" 19
times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of
your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not
an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the
treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you're still stuffing yourself
with fried foods and cheesecakes).

So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be
amongst people or communities where you can support each other,
learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have
found.

While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service,
it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!

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