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Started On: 02/07/09
Last Activity: 03/01/09
Comments: 3 comments

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true_likeness created by: true_likeness

mental block

I was wondering who has days where they fly through the chapters on tools to life. I think I maybe at a point where I feel like I need to go backand review everything I missed or did not put all of my heart into it. tools is helping me but I feel like I should be happy and viewing life better. just wondering if other ppl feel the same.

 
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true_likeness

  true_likeness

Sun, Mar 01 11:41 AM

thanks - added: Sun, Mar 01 11:41 AM

It seams there is only two ppl in this group lol ....so not just to you but to everyone on here I want to send out the biggest warmest loveing hug to you and thanks!!! I will keep on working and being very thankfull for everyone for watching my back. thanks guys!! I will do the same

 
vandysgirl

  vandysgirl

Sun, Feb 22 11:15 PM

slacking... - added: Sun, Feb 22 11:15 PM

So here I am, after a couple of weeks i think it's been, and I was thinking about my Tools and how I haven't been doing them. Today was the day on quiting smoking, I almost didn't read it except that it told me to whether or not I smoked, so I read it - and I am soooo glad I did. I lie to myself constantly and let myself get away with things I know better than to do, just becuase it's easier this way than to be lonely and depressed all the damn time. So, I am glad I logged in today. Do I feel better since I've started Tools? I'd say yes, it's made me be aware of myself and catch myself doing things. And honestly, I need to be reminded. So, I hope everyone is doing well. And another little truth is that I think maybe I"m afaid of ending it, like I'm afaid I'll be left wondering, what now? and will be left without an answer....

 
Luda

  Luda

Sun, Feb 08 12:29 PM

RE: mental block - added: Sun, Feb 08 12:29 PM

Yeah, i have thought that a lot. There is alot that tools tells us to do, and without the checklist it is hard to remember all of it. But you have to remember that tools is all about you, go at your own pace, focus on the most useful things that you have been taught. I am stuck on day 43, and have been for over a week, and when i look at my checklist i dont even know what some of the things are. I find that some things that we go over just dont apply to me, or i already do them  so i dont put too much effort into it. I do find it useful to go back and redo some of the days that maybe you have overlooked. You are not going to magically wake up and be happy all of a sudden, it takes time. But dont you feel better than before you started? Just keep doing it, and things will work out. you're not alone here.