It is starting to seem like a re-occurring pattern now for me. I feel like I am kicking ass all week and feeling good about myself when BOOM! The weekend comes and I fly off the handles. I end up in Huntington Beach at a friends house partying all weekend and sometimes don't even come home until Sunday night.  Now some of you may think that I am over-staying my welcome at a friends place when I do this but it's  encouraged by them.  Take last weekend for example starting on Friday...actually no...THURSDAY! I go straight to my friends house and we start playing guitar, then he passes me a bottle of Southern Comfort, I feel bad saying no and so I take a pull...then another...and another.  Wake up Friday morning on his couch...go to work come home and my inner-voice is telling me the right things to do but then I get a call from Huntington Beach.  It's my friend....party at his house...there are hot girls there...so where do you think I woke up Saturday?  I could continue writing more but let's just say I didn't sleep in my own bed until Sunday night and at one point I was at Oktoberfest in San Diego.  I need help saying no to my friends without them feeling offended! Or maybe help in other areas? I did manage to squeeze some tennis in on Sunday but then followed that with acts of stupidity and poor decision making.