Well.... I am new to this profile deal on the internet, so I will give it a shot. Please don't laugh at me if it is odd or way off track from what it should be. I am a 32 year old man with 2 wonderful children. One is 7 and my youngest will be 3 real soon.I have been married for 7 years, and I've been with my wife for 12 years. I am currently divorcing due to a mess of reasons. The biggest being HER lack of support and infidelities. I just had major back surgery in September of 2010, and I am still trying to recover. It seems that emotions, jealousy, and stress are significantly affecting my recovery. Most of my friends are now moved away to other states and countries, dead, or in jail. And the friends that are still here are mutual friends of my soon to be ex-wife, and it is extremely awkward to be around or even talk to them as they are biased. I just recently earned my G.E.D. and I am currently enrolled in college.

I was adopted as a baby and do not know my biological history. Both of my adopted parents passed away in 1998 and 2000. I have 4 sisters and 2 brothers. One of my brothers committed suicide in 1994. None of these siblings are from both parents. 2 sisters and both brothers were from a previous marriage of my adoptive mother, and the 2 remaining sisters are from my adoptive father. I have been estranged from them all since childhood.

I did not finish high school, I fell 2 credits short of graduation. I went to community college for 3 semesters, as they did not require a diploma of any sort. I was in a bad car accident in 1998 and had my spleen rupture, so it was removed. The passenger was my girl friend at the time. She was in a coma for 45 days, she suffered a collapsed lung and some brain damage. We were hit by an elderly drunk driver. I have not seen her since. we were very much in love, but her parents did not like me. After the accident they forbid me to see her and told the world I tried to kill their baby girl.

  I haven't had the easiest or the best life by any stretch, and I thought my marriage was the answer as I felt more pride and sense of purpose than I have ever felt in my entire life to date. My children are included in that feeling too. But I found out the hard way, and I am still finding out the hard way, that liars cause more pain and drama then they are worth, no matter how good they make you feel with their lies, it hurts much more when the truth comes out. I needed moral and mental support these last two years than ever. Instead, my wife was involved with a few boyfriends from the past.

I hope the future holds a lot of good stuff. I can see the RIGHT lady for me and my boy's. I will finish college with a masters degree, or even a doctorate! My Boys will be happy and we will all be healthy. I will be in the best possible shape physically. I will make better decisions with my life and love life, and I woll not let others make me feel the way I do now. I will be a stronger man.