Good morning fellow boxers in the tool shed: Today, I write this blog, amazed that it's almost been a year since I joined "Tools". What a ride it's been!
When I first came upon this site, I was in a really yucky relationship, and my primary motivation for joining was to create a better relationship. Somehow, I thought that I could do this with the help of "Tools". I worked through the shed each day, some days more painful than others, and then the little miracles began to happen.
First, and foremost: My attitude is my decision. Paramount to all the lessons in Tools, this is (in my opinion) the most powerful and profound. When I decided to take charge of my attitude - and I mean really take charge of it without excuses - my life transformed.
As I write this to you today, I am absolutely not the individual I was a year ago. The little timid mouse stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship. She is gone, and so is the relationship, thank God! I shifted all the negative energies out of my life, moved and embraced only positive and uplifting things around me.
The house where I moved has a beautiful view of the mountains, and a lovely screened in porch. I made it my "Happy Room" and decorated it with pastels of lavender, green and turquoise. It's peaceful and just a great "Happy" Space.
The Universe dropped Mr. Right at my doorstep. See, when we let go of that which doesn't serve us, that which DOES serve us appears magically. What a JOY!
I am fresh off a road trip we took on our Harley to Colorado. We're looking at houses and planning our next trip. Life is GREAT in JaneLand!
So, fellow boxers, my primary reason for coming into the Tool Shed was to develop the skills to create a better me, and put me in a more loving space for a relationship.... and it WORKS. If YOU work with Tools, Tools works FOR you! Seriously!
Plane Jane soaring off - reminding you that Your attitude is YOUR decision, so decide to make it a great one!
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Hey Soul Sister - I'm Right There With You!
Hi Angel!
It's good to see you and the progress you've made. I remember the days of "Mr. Wrong" I had one of my own. Life sure is good when you can be yourself, embrace yourself, and love who you are! - AND BE LOVED FOR WHO YOU ARE! Tools came into my life Sept 23, 2007 - I started 3 days after you. I must say, if you put in the work you definintely get the results! I am so happy for you!
ABMe
Wow!!!
That was so inspiring!!! Thank you so much for youre lovely spirit!!! Makes me want to change the world too!!!!