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Birth Date: Tue, Aug 31 1982

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I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: Hiram College, UNC Charlotte

Jobs: Engineer

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Member Since: 09/10/09
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To be able to support my family, live and be happy like my grandparents were, find someone to grow old with. And have awesome cars.
Meet someone or Kar
Be comfortable with job/work
Be home again around parents, been to far away for too long.
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Just ask, would be helpful to talk. My confidont is my ex from 6 years ago and if it is anyone I know within relationships or buisness I do not feel comfortable talking to them about it.

I joined TOOLS because:
 1) Jason Ellis on Faction talks about it and I thought I may find something to help. 2) There is a girl I can not get over and it has been 6 years and I am looking for a way to either be in that relationship again or get over that relationship
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 What I am doing now, I love engineering, but closer to my family.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Charlie a cockapoo, its a great story but i see the question below
 It is my best friends dog, Jessica, she lived with me after college and broke up with her boyfriend and asked if she could get a dog, I said yes and Charlie is an awesome dog
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 My grandma's food, anything she ever made, or taco salad from the mom of the girl which is the reason I signed up.
 My grandma is home to me, Her and my grandfather are who I want to be, Kind caring and loving. Taco salad because of the reason I am on here and cant get over my past. Her mom still makes it for me when I come over and drops it off when I have tragedies occur in my life.
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 My grandparents and Kar, Kar abbreviated for the girl
 She remembers them and knows why I am who Iam and how I am
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 Margaritta pizza with tomato slices
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 Budlight or Jager
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 None do not drink it
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 I'll be happy the rest of my life and find a woman I will gow old with and never divorce, That my family will not feel like we are short on money, That my dad will live forever.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Luke Bryan, and 2 country mix cds
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 To get out of my place and do some community service
A sunset I remember:
 On Lake Milton beach as the sun came up thinking about an old girlfriend and what to do about the relationship