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2007-04-15 00:00:00

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I just finished Day 66 myself so I visited your page. Hope you are feeling better, more energized and positive now that it's April. My late advice on how to get out of a negative funk or downward spiral after experiencing so much negativity is to work of focusing on the positive in your life. They don't have to be big ones to counteract the big ones of death, just need to be things you are grateful for now. A good cup of coffee, a great meal, a beautiful sunrise, a good conversation with a friend, being alive at all. Actually keep a physical list by writing down three things you are grateful for at least once a day and feel good about them. Slowly but surely your vibration level will increase. What you think about comes about, so work at bringing in more good thoughts. Good luck.

2007-04-15 00:00:00

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The month of November was very difficult.  Our 1 1/2 month old pupply died, my husband's brother died very unexpectedly and my husband had emergency surgery.  I am feeling very stressed and un organized with these events all happening within a three week period.  Unfortunately, the negative thoughts took over the brain - smoking increased, eating habits are terrible (hardly eating at all) and self esteem and energy are very low.

 I have re-read a lot of the Tools to life articles to help me get back to level that I was at before these events but it has been very difficult.  Any ideas or thoughts on how to easily get back on track - reading, etc.  would be greatly appreciated.

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stevetut stevetut at 2007-04-15

says: I just finished Day 66 myself so I visited your page. Hope you are feeling better, more energized and positive now that it's April. My late advice on how to get out of a negative funk or downward spiral after experiencing so much negativity is to work of focusing on the positive in your life. They don't have to be big ones to counteract the big ones of death, just need to be things you are grateful for now. A good cup of coffee, a great meal, a beautiful sunrise, a good conversation with a friend, being alive at all. Actually keep a physical list by writing down three things you are grateful for at least once a day and feel good about them. Slowly but surely your vibration level will increase. What you think about comes about, so work at bringing in more good thoughts. Good luck.

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 I need help in self esteem, motivation, remove negativity in my life to achieve the desires or goals I want.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 I am unsure of the dream job - but I would love to work from my home, set my own schedule, become financially independent, not have my work conflict with family time, some travelling
My favorite wild animal is:
 Cougar
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 Cougars are quiet, watch from the outer limits as to what is happening before making their entrance.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Labrador
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 Labs need companionship, are loveable, are not aggressive
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
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 I love pasta with white sauce and with a bit of meat
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 Vegetarian with lots of cheese
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