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Tue, Jun 09 12:33 PM

Dramafied bullshit

 

so after all this good news and doing great blogs i have posted here in the last couple weeks....i bring u the bottom.

 

so last night my sister and her best friend got into it and she called my sister stupid which my sister called me crying about it. so i wrote her a message saying maybe she should get her eyes checked b4 she goes and calls ppl stupid. we'll then her story changes every five minutes putting the blame on someone eles. my sister calls me and tells me just not to even bother so i write her friend back saying im done with the drama. have a nice night. and i guess my trying to drop the subject ticked her off and she told me that her uncle wouldnt do our wedding ceromony.

 

this really lit my fire. 18 days b4 my wedding and now im having to fuck around with this bullshit. bc i said i wanted out of the drama so she caused more! i swear some ppl get off on it. so im in the middle of debating a cival suit which my lawer said i will win and trying to find someone eles who is willing at the last minute to marry us. my brother inlaw called to say that he doesnt think the original guy is going to drop out of it...but what am i going to think when someone tells me he isnt going to do it. so im stuck in a sticky spot once again.

 

after my falling out with my parents i thought i was drama free..turns out i was so wrong. it was stupid of me to think otherwise. drama is surrounding us all. and maybe i shouldnt have stuck up for my sister but what was i suppost to do sit there and listen to my sister bawl bc her friend is a bitch?! and i seriously didnt even say anything that was that rude. my sisters friend doesnt have the right to go around calling ppl stupid...exspecialy when my sister has a learning disability.

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It is so difficult when one gets angry and wants to protect another or "do the right thing" because of the stupidity of others.  However, the emotional fire that is burning frequently becomes out of control and instead of only one person being burned, too many others get scarred. I hope you can calm down and find another way to get your wedding back on track.  It is always a shock to the system when one's "best" friend does something hurtful. Why? Where is it coming from? What good comes from all this negativity? How can we stop feeding the fire?  Think about Tools. Do you visualize the result of actions before you take action? Can you be proactive and change the situation so feelings are not so frayed? Can you move on and ignore bad behavior? So difficult.