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Wed, Aug 22 12:00 AM

Trying to figure things out

 I don't know where I go wrong in relationships. All my friends say I am a wonderful person, and figure out how a guy could not want to be with me. They always say, it isn't you it is him. I am beginning to reflect and think that it may be me. There has got to be something that I am either attracted to or the person is attracted to me. I am successful in every other aspects of my life except when it comes to relationships with men, i just don't seem to get it right. Right now in my life I want to find someone who will be my friend, who I can go out with and have fun times with. Someone who will be my partner. I also don't want to have children, I want to continue living in the city. I am in no rush to get married.  

I really want a man who I am happy, in love, attracted to, and they feel the same way back. 
This does not seem to come easy to me, and I can't figure out why. 

 

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Tweek Myself A Bit For Love

You're not alone You're not alone

 

Big topic a lot of us think about...glad you shared with us. I think we begin to fix a concern the day we ask ourselves, "What am I doing in this situation that I can do differently?"  Once we realize hey the common denominator in all these dates was ME...that's the first step to change.

Cuz I agree, sounds like something is going on there...and it sounds to me like you are the kind of person who will work this through. PLUS, you have US now, and Tools. It's sure a worthwhile thing to work on! Keep us posted... 

Clear about Values

P.S. I love that you know what you want in life and what makes you happy. 

Hey Sister

I hear you.  It was not that long ago that I could be found walking in your very shoes.  You are clear on what you want.  So very good.  Now, become the woman who would be with such a man.  Become a best friend to yourself first and foremost.

I had a history of picking men who were not respectful of me.  It was only when I learned to truly respect myself that I connected with a wonderful man who respects himself and me.  Your world is a reflection of what you value. 

You'll be fine.

You are adorable.

If I could figure out how to post my picture I would.  Why?  Because to see a smile on a pretty face is contagious.  One date can be fun.  You are a very clear minded woman, who knows what her goals are in life.  Stick with it.  If a partner is out there he will be there for you when the time is right.  Patience is a big virtue in anyone's life.  We often choose out of a sense of pressure, hurry up and get on with it from others (parents) and sometimes, very often a pressured choice is flawed.  So, my beautiful tools friend, sit back, or stand up LOL, do the tools, continue to focus on your heart's desire, center your chakras and go for it in life.  You look very happy and need not be partnered for the sake of your happiness.  You've got what most desire anyway!

You're a winner! You're a winner!