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Birth Date: Thu, Jun 19 1947

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Schools: Oakdale Christian, Grand Rapids Christian High, Grand Valley State University

Jobs: Medical Social Worker, Professor of Human Services at University of Phoenix; (retired)


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Thu, May 01 03:37 PM

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Today it seems that I can do nothing right.  My husband is home, hanging around because he has no classes to teach.  Regarding his depression, all he does is watch television, read occasionally, and spend hours and hours on a computer game.  That game has become his escape from reality. 

Anyway, I have been thinking positively about our needs, and his work, and guess what?  He got on line and sold $400.00 worth of comp textbooks!

 

I must have done something to tick him off, but I don't know what.  Every move I make, and everything I say gets a negative, or very negative response.  I'm tired- I worked all day, then made supper, and my feelings are really hurt.  Then I get angry.  So, instead, I decided to go to my own space just so I wouldn't say anything mean.  Writing about it helps. 

Thanks for listening (or reading).  I just feel like the more positive I get, the more negative he gets.

I have upset the homeostasis of our relationship somehow.

I saw 4 red-breasted Grosbeaks at my feeder today.  I have never seen more than one at a time, and even then, sightings are rare.  That made me happy.Laughing

 

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