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Wed, Apr 30 08:59 AM

Depression: not sadness

 

There are times in my life when depression has set in around me like a thick fog.  I am not talking about sadness, or grief, or loss.

Real depression can wrap me up in a blanket of blindness, numbness, with a lack of will to accomplish anything.  I know that this kind of depression runs in my family.  It is called endogenous depression, because it's cause, or continuation, is within the brain chemestry.

 

I have had this once in my life, and it was once too many.  My mother suffered it ongoing throughout her life.  She was never able to evercome it, despite her deep faith.

 

So, here is where I question if our lesson of the day, (#19) might  be an oversimplification?  I know that cognitive therapy is effective in many cases, but in a depression lasting more than several weeks, antidepressants can be a good thing.  A very good thing.  They can return somone's life, their determination to proceed with life, empowerment, and finally, their joy in life.

 

All I am saying is, when it comes to depression, if you are hearing a little voice in your head saying, "this is too much.  Just go ahead and be done with it."  Get thee to a doctor.  Quickly.

 

Being Social Worky today.  And thanks for reading my blog!

 

 

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I Understand

You do have a valid point...

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Thank you for your insights.

 

What you've said may be brief, but it's clear and to the point.  Your experience, your insight, and your compassion may be a help to more than one of us here.  You never know who may be reading your words.  Carla, thank you for reaching out.

Sending you lots of love Sending you lots of love and a very heartfelt hug.

Great comment!

I've suffered from depression for a few years now.  Several times during my medicated journey, I've thought to myself, hey - this was just a bad situation.  I'm sure I don't need the meds anymore now my situation has changed...but i was wrong.  I suspect, like many with depression, I have a chemical imbalance in my head - or maybe it's a sign of the MS - I dunno - but I realize now I can't just "get over it" and will probably always need some medical help - much like a diabetic needs insulin or whatever...

Since I've had my little epiphany, I have become a staunch advocate for people struggling with depression, no matter what the cause.  It is a silent disabler that causes no end of harm. And there are so few resources for people who are depressed but not acutely so...

Best wishes to all who struggle or cope with life with depression - seek help where you can...