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  Chizzle602

Sat, May 01 05:38 PM

Still trying to get over my lost love

 A week ago I thought I was over my Ex and now here I am again with the strong feelings for her. We broke up 8 months ago but continued to see each other on and off till about 2 weeks ago. I made the decision to end it for good cause it was eating me up inside only having her partially with me,(mentally, emotionally, and physically) when she wanted to be.  TOOLS has helped me deal with and try to find my oppurtunity but I just cant shake these feelings. I sit at home and wonder who she with or if shes having fun, or if she thinking about me. My friends would tell me to harded the F up but its not that easy for me, although I know I need to move on and start working on myself. I should of started working on myself 8 months ago cause thats what she wanted but I was too stubborn, so I guess I got what I asked for.I have to see her quite a bit cause we have a son together, so I know that makes it harder. I've let her know how much I miss her and want to work it out and I feel like she likes that cause she knows I'm there when she needs me. But I came to a point were I had to start worry about me, so thats why I joined TOOLS. Dont get mewrong I'm dealing with this better then I did when it first happend but its still hard. Will it ever get easier?

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Easier !?

Of course it will get easier, but it will take time. Try to get your self to understand( it's not easy) that you can feel that way and it's OK . You also need to understand you will never get those  feelings back from her. It helped me when I broke up with the mother of my kids. After a while the feeling you have for her will change. You will look at her as a great mother, and still have love for her just not in the way you do now.It is very hard don't get me wrong. It took me 2 years to get to the place in my head and heart that told me this is the best way. hang in there man. keep with tools,it will help soooooo much. If you ever want to talk just drop me a note.