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I dont know whats going on, i dont wanna loose her

 

 

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Fri, Oct 03 07:16 PM

I dont know whats going on, i dont wanna loose her

 Ive been dating this girl for about 3 months now and just last night she said that she needs some time to herself to figure things out. She still wants to hang out with me but she doesnt wanna be physical, which will be really hard for me. Before we started dating she said that she wasnt ready for another boyfriend because she just got out of 2 different relationships after 2 years and hasnt had any time to herself. I didnt push anything on her she initiated pretty much every thing (first kiss, sex, ect..) I just told her how i feel about her and she said she feels the same way, so eventually it grew into a relationship where we were together every day and loved being with eachother. So i guess my question is should i wait for her to be ready, I really wanna be with her. And i just need support i fell so out of my mind and and confused I dont know what to do!

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srull18 srull18: 2008-11-17

says:

hey Devin.

 

this is field I have a lot of knowledge on.

 

from what you write, it seems that you are qualifying yourself to her too much.

 

let me make this even clearer for her (please take no offence), it seems that you are licking her asss too much.

when you were first dating you probably weren't doing this.

 

my opinion to you, is that you have to be strong, and if she doesn't want you, then its her loss (this must be your attitude).

you must tell her with confidence to her face thatshe is making a mistake and you move on, get ur life together, and she'll be second guessing herself forever

 

 

peace, good luck

sebbiek sebbiek: 2008-10-04

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hello dear friend.

 

i can imagine this is really hard for you.

but what i think is to give her all the time she needs cause forcing something will give her a bad feeling and also a bad feeling for you i think.

 

if you two are ment for each other only time will tell right?

well i really hope it works out eventually.

 

greetings sebastiaan