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Feist, Soko, manolo Garcia, Juanes, Newton Faulkner, Snowpatrol, Lauren Hill, Chico Buarque, Oscar de Leon, Frank Reyes...etc
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Brida, La mujer cuervo, Como agua para chocolate, el Clan del oso cavernario, Is anybody out there?, The virgin Blue, Labirynth, etc
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All places are beautiful depending on how you look at them, Snowdon, Stonhenge, Caceres, Barcelona, Punta Cana, San Andres, Aix en Provence...etc
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Estrella14's Life List:
| go to Cuba |
| Learn to breakdance |
| walk outdoors more |
| stop smoking |
| publish my poems in a book |
| Find my career path |
| grow my hair to tailbone lenght |
| Keep my stuff clean and organised everyday |
| Be very good and effective at my job |
| Enjoy my job everyday |
| Build my own house beutifully |
| Buy a new car (Seat Leone) |
| become a wise and superb driver |
| Live without incoherent fears |
| Earn a lot of money and put it to good use |
| Be more loving and caring |
| learn to be more patient |
| Eat organically and healthily |
| Forgive myself and all those people that have hurt me deeply |
| be more productive and constructive evryday |
| Help other people everyday |
| LOVE myself |
| Find my twin flame |
| Travel around the world for at least a year! |
| Do an intensive yoga teacher training whilst in India |
| Set up my own succesful and ethical business |
| have kids |
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Advice...
In my opinion, you have every right to be angry, no one should tell you what perfume to wear, etc (it could soon end up what clothes and colours you can wear - no patterns or bright colours now, you'll bring on my migraines!). LOL!
I personally have never heard of a perfume, or any kind of scent bringing on a migraine (I do suffer from them myself), but I am not a medical expert, so I can't say for certain.
You could wear your perfume tomorrow as normal, and if she says anything (only if) then reply politely and calmly, that you do not believe your perfume will bring on a migraine. If she still goes on, say if she is having troubles with migraines perhaps she should see her doctor. Make sure you say politely and calmly (I know it would be very easy to shout or snap, I would want to).
The only reason any company could complain about your scent is if you had BO, I do not believe they could sack you or discipline you for wearing perfume. And as you say she is not your boss, I don't see as she can tell you to do anything regarding perfumes, shampoos or washing powders you use! If you are polite to her (however difficult that may be) she cannot go to your boss and complain, not even about your perfume.
That would be my advice! Hope it helps!
Dont give your power away
Hey E,
There is really only one thing we can control, and that is ourselves. You can't control how a coworker reacts to anything. In fact, you agreed its really her issue.
If I told you I would give you $1,000,000 dollars right this very moment for you to control the anger toward her, you could do it.
Anger robs you of your power, and only you can give permission for that to happen.
Forgive and forsake as quickly as you can. Your happiness (which is priceless) hangs in the balance.
You are an enlighten individual, so you already know the correct response and proper coarse of action. Right?
Its not what happens to you, its how you react.
Proceed forward with honor, respect, power and dignity!!!
timBER
Intentionally give her energy!
Ditto to the above,but also I find if I consciously (in secret)give that person energy,seeing it flow to them and through them before they take it from me. It leaves me with a compassionate feeling! Try it some time and let me know how it makes you feel! LOVE AND LIGHT-SAHNDRA