No human brain offers perfect recall and function. The better the recall of past events the type of function changes or looks as if it is non existent to some people. A long game of chess for instance.
Choosing to live a life of Integrity and insisting on Moral Fortitude from self and others is difficult in many respects. Innate intelligence, desires relative to past experiences, external stressors, and consistency of interaction from certain people, all of which can contribute to the mind filtering out vital pieces of information required for building trust.
Conscious deceit, although not viewed in that way from the person in question, it comes about through a preconceived notion about people's motivations, and if not consciously questioned (the internal projection of who people actually are) can cause a person to act dishonestly, simply because "they weren't going to follow through anyway", or "thats too much work".
As a result if your mind is clouded by what you think people are saying, getting feedback from your environment that justfies the theory that the person is "not being fair" when someone sees you for who you are, and calls you on it. Or treats you based upon your own level of ethics... life will tend to suck for you AND EVERYONE around you.
Why? No one is getting what they want. They get some half assed approximation of what they want, and think that they deserve no better or can give no better themselves.
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