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Birth Date: Tue, Feb 20 1979

Place of residence:
Potsdam NY, United States (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: SUNY Canton, Western International University

Jobs: Searching/Disabled

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Will need to get this off an exeternal harddrive and copy and paste it in (14 pages)
Fix/Handle the Narcolepsy and ALL of its disabling attributes.
To begin dating again, and find the woman who is worthy of my love as I am worthy of her's. To feel what only our souls can touch, and to know each other before we meet. But meeting with our eyes wide open. So when there is nothing left between us, nothing will ever come between us.
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2009-08-17 00:21:19

JEDITEECH

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I tried to send a message via the message sign under your picture, it did not work! I will give as much insight as I can in regards to your situation. I will need a little more time to assimilate your circumstances on a deeper level. I did make it to the first of the three links you posted. Be thankfull for your willingness to work on your current situation, you are definitely not taking this lightly and want to improve and take control of your situation! --------------------namaste----------------

2009-02-17 02:32:22

kmcm

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Thank you for the cheers in several of my blogs! i appreciate the support! I've an old work friend who has the same as you healthwise who... managed it very well. Im trying to find him now. Will let you know if I do. Perhaps can assist you with resources! Take care & Thanks again!

2009-02-16 03:26:47

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You can do it!!! I feel your story and know a lot of you pain, I have had three divorces and over 50 occupations and felt worthless to my family at times but all that aside, life has treated me well, I am retired now at 62 and have chronic back pain due to a lifting incedent. Tools let me see myself in the mirror and improve lots of ideas i've had. Plus learning NLP and helping people helps my ego... The mind is a great tools to work with and to see changes in people you know really picks you up... My best to you your friend ... Steve

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2009-10-16 01:49:03

JEDITEECH

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Gary I am here LOL =P Tremedous Boost, just for you!!! Things are cool for you I hope, better and better!!!

2009-10-07 21:12:51

Gary_R

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"almost palpable? Hmmm a challenge! Thank you!

2009-10-07 10:49:02

JEDITEECH

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I am close to being back (really need to get a laptop with wireless...) So YOU, go go go! Your improvement is almost palpable :O Peace Starlight and Smiles to YOU!

2009-09-27 23:36:13

JEDITEECH

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Boosterific Boostings to bolster bonafide blessings!!Your insight and involvement with tools and the people of tools makes a difference, and a Positive one at that!! Thanks my friend!!!! :}

2009-09-02 13:30:13

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i read your accountability blog... great information

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 - I did all that I was told was impossible

 - I have eaten enough humble pie that I will never go hungry

 - I learned all that I could learn from those around me 

 - I went where I thought I would go to die, I survived and came back

 - I have done that which was terrifying, and wrong, and have been complimented.

 - I have said what I thought would inevitably lead to my death, and have been apologized to. 

 - I have pushed my self so hard, and paid so high a price, that I know three interpretations of "I'm thinking about the here after" one of which is; "what does God keep sending me back here after?"

 

I found it. 

 

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How do you define it?  Who taught you the meaning of it?  What have you learned when your integrity faltered (no matter the cause)? Why should I listen to you?

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JEDITEECH JEDITEECH at 2009-10-16

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Integrity I define integrity as how what you say VS what you do line up. A person of high integrity will live according to what they know is right and true. The saying "My word is my bond" comes to mind. Structural Integrity equates as to how sound or how much load a structure can take before failing. Following this approach the strength of a persons integrity is how much it takes before this integrity fails.

 

I have learned by example (mostly examples of integrity breakdown, alot of it my own) from reading. Interactions with people that seemed to have integrity then lost all seeming intergrity as they compromised over relationships, money or substances. To go further my Dad taught me to have integrity when it came to money and work ethic and physically I had integrity. I did not however put in as much effort or inciteful thought into learning as much as I could. My Grandparents were repected and people of integrity. Mom taught me about integrity when it came to love and matters of the heart.

 

What I have learned over my faltering integrity, and from it is that having once had it in abundance and even having it acknowledged on a regular basis is that it can be lost. I would say it is really a hard thing to get back. I do have a broader and enriched perspective and starting with myself and my integrity of what I am thinking and the actions or appropriate inactions that I am taking or not taking I will build on that.

 

You should listen to me perhaps on a trial basis only LOL If I can provide or share no joy or deeper meaning, if my net affect is negative. If there is a severe drought in smiles then you should not listen =)

 

 

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I joined TOOLS because:
 I have no one in my life that is willing to help me face my situation and hold me accountable, if I need a computer program to do it I will take it. (That includes church, "family", and friends.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 Entrepreneur, which means I've got it already, I am just not paying very well at the moment. I will have to fire the employees because they are asleep on the job, and the boss, he can't make up his mind. I just want to go postal some times. But just can't seem to move. (Narcolepsy/Cataplexy)
My favorite wild animal is:
 Cheetah
Why (describe as much as possible):
 The fastest land animal, and is fully built for all out running after its prey. So fast, a rabbit would be boring (or would get trampled on).
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 My family has had many different breeds over my lifetime. I wouldn't be able to choose just one breed as a favorite (different personalities even in the same breed).
Why:
 I don't think it is the breed that is important, I just love how loyal dogs are, we always treat the animals as well as we know how, if we make a mistake we do better with that one and the next and we have never had any bite neighbors who walk by (lived in the country on a farm)
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 I ask him to teach me how to cook as well as him/her.
Why:
 Making the dish/meal is so much more fun then simply eating it, that and I will always carry that skill with me from then on.
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 Timothy Ferriss, Nassim Nicholas Taleb, Ray Kurzweil, Tony Robbins, Barbara Sher. This would be an accomplishable goal in that I believe they have all lectured at the TED conference, and the conversations would be mutually beneficial (in that I am a bit of a medical oddity). Anthony Robbins, Barbara Sher, Enstein, Ghandi, General Patton. Of course, I wouldn't have just one of those dinners either, I would have to have another one with Trump, Napoleon Hill, Robert Kiyosaki and his Wife, and Edison. (depending on what I am working on and when this list would change for the original 5)
Why:
 Passion, Creativity, Persistence, Wisdom, Audacity/and great Strategist.
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 Where ever the next Chef is that I am going to learn from.
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 One with another 7 right next to it. Ham Mushroom Pineapple and Extra Cheese.
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 Before I joined the Mormon Church, a Mudslide. Now, hmmmmm Mountain Dew
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 Before I joined the Mormon Church, an Iced Mocha Latte with a Triple Shot of Espresso. Now, I would avoid it because I absolutely LOVE coffee.
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 If I was talking to one right now....? 1. To stop being so stingy on the wishes and grant as many as I like, 2. A matching list of phone numbers and contact information (as well as an introduction) to all of the wealthy, and successful people I would like to meet and or learn from, 3. A credit Card with No limit, no interest, and no payments, that will never be stolen. 4. To have complete control of my sleep schedule and to no longer be in pain.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Wouldn't matter, I will have satellite internet access and be playin' Pandora Radio the entire time, or XFM or what ever suits my fancy at the time.
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 Level it and rebuild it from the ground up (3 buildings on main are condemned)
A sunset I remember:
 Any of the ones I saw on the St Lawrence River when on the bow of the old '66 Owens Cabin cruiser as a child. The ones where the purple and pink were reflecting off the ripples. When the sun was bright yellow/orange and would sparkle against the electric blue ripples, when it was pink, red, orange, calm, windy, you name it.
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 Thomas Crown - "The Thomas Crown Affair"
Why:
 If you are going to be single, ya might as well be rich.