First and foremost I am a dad. I have two young boys, one is 5 and the other is only a few days old as I am writing this. Collin, the older of the two was the best thing that ever happened to me. His mom and I were young, at 19, when we had him, but he gave my life direction and meaning. After a year his mom and I broke up. We remain close friends to this day. My second son, Isaiah, is less then a week old. I his mom left me when she was 3 months pregnant and I feel like there is a large portion of the bonding process that I missed with him because I wasn't involved as much. I currently am hoping to sort out what I am going to do with myself now that I have two boys and two mothers, neither of which I will end up with. I know that just having them in my life will be enough to get me by, but there will always be a part of me wanting more then what I have. I hope to find what I am looking for in myself and I believe that being here and wanting a change is the first step in the right direction. Feel free to send me a message or anything. I would love to get to know some more people while I make changes in my life.

My past is nothing to complain about, I have fantastic parents and two amazing sisters, all of which I am very close with. We grew up in the country and my family members where the largest part of my social circle. When I was 8 my family moved to a city of around 65,000 and it was a big change. After adjusting to the change there where very few bumps for the next 10 years. After highschool I met Collins mom and at 19 we had our son. I worked full time in call-centers from then until I was 22 or so. I decided to take another stab at school, something I was never a huge fan of from the get go. College was about as enjoyable as my previous stint in the education system so when the opportunity came to get back in the work force with a company like Bell, I jumped at the chance. I am about to go into my 3rd year with the company installing and repairing phone and internet services for residential customers.

Seeing as I am young this should be the largest section of my profile. But I, like many others my age, am still unsure of what my future will look like. The things I am sure of are that I will still be putting in all the effort to having a positive relationship with my kids. I imagine that I will have changed jobs in the next 5 - 10 years but there is a good chance that I will be under the same umbrella of Bell as I feel there are other doors that can be opened through them. I know I will not be having any more kids, which may have an impact on whether or not I will have found a partner. I am open to the idea of staying a bachelor, but would never turn away from something that felt right. As stated before, my kids will be my primary focus, making sure they have the support they need from their father. Maybe when more becomes clear I can add a bit more to this section.