The Inner Voice!

I love the inner voice, don't you?  I can remember oh so many times that I've listened to someone else's inner voice instead of mine and then regretted it because the out come was not the way that I wanted it to be or that I thought it should be.  Being accountable means listening to my inner voice and actually doing it instead of listening to someone else's and doing what theirs says to do instead of mine.  I told my husband, that I have an exterior locus of control, he said, "it's good you know that".  I know wish he would have said, "we should work on that".  But, he didn't and I now know that I definately need to listen to it more and not give into what others want because it will make them happy. 

Will this be easy. NOPE!  But, it is the journey that we are dealing with and not the end destination.  This is one of those big challenges for me that I must master in order to have my happy and fulfilled life.  Regardless of others approval.  We, seem to be ones that are always seeking others approval, only to find out that we never got it even when we do what is asked of us.  Or, another way of saying this is when we listen to their inner voice, they see us as weak, and consequently, want nothing to do with us or use us.  

This for me, is one of those pivotal days.  It is a nonnegotiable for me of something that I must master.  It reflects in all areas of our life and in others as well.  Spouses, children, coworkers and on the list goes. 

Okay take a breath now.

This program is wonderful and if used to it's fullest is more powerful than dynamite.

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