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Birth Date: Thu, Mar 21

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2008-12-10 14:01:22

Charles

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Congrats on day 20. I struggle with allowing intimacy and friendship also but I'm working on tearing down the wall one brick at a time. Keep working every day. Charles

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2008-12-10 23:27:17

Ruebs

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Howdy, boostn you for luck

2008-11-16 00:57:42

angieszz

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ey habit, here is a boost to get you going on journey through tools. One of the things that we need to learn is that we cannot change others and therefore they cannot change us. I hope you are still planning the wedding and that the 2 most important people are there on the day. Have a great day! Angie

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I have a terrible habit of not allowing anyone to get close to me.   These intimacy issues can be traced back to my earliest memories. While I have been in a caring relationship for 20 years and have reasonably adjusted children. There isn't a sole on this planet that I am close to. I have many aquaintences, but no friends. It isn't that people don't try to befriend me. I will do everything possible to keep them at a distance.

This has come to a head recently, as my life partner wants to have a formal wedding. It bothers my wife that I don't have any friends or relatives to invite to our wedding. She now wants to start "making friends" and I am not interested. It upsets her and this is my first start at trying to amend the situation.

 

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