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Jewel_ra
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Birth Date: Mon, Jun 22 1981

Place of residence:
new london ohio, United States (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

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Jobs: Massage Therapist


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Member Since: 03/24/08
Last Login: 04/10/10
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Get my own place- I want a old house (farmhouse) with some land. I want to have my own garden, I want to have my own chickens, beef, ect.
plan my trip to Brazil
learn Portuguese- for my Brazil trip.
Live for the here and now.
I want my house cleaning business to be successful. and be so busy that I have to hire in help.
I want to massage a professional sports team.
I want to go on our with one of the bands I massage.
I want to go to another country and teach english. I would prefer brazil first so i can visit my friends there.
work on my relationship with Ryan
do the splits
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  Jewel_ra

Tue, Mar 09 04:53 PM

falling

 

has anyone fell backwards?  and felt like even though you have learned everything you had from tools, that life just wont change?

Im having a difficult day...and it makes me feel like nothing good will happen.  Im trying to get by and go through my checklist.

I dont want days like this...I dont want to fall back to where I was.

what do I do?

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I am learning each day Im on tools, and I thank you for your support.

I just hope that I can learn to listen to my inner voice and take breathes....

the other day I had my buttons pushed and I reacted like I always do.  I really have to be proactive.

 

dang it.

 

 

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Perhaps you need to be kind to yourself.

 

We all have days where we feel like blah and get the feeling that things are terribly wrong. I know I do.  I talked to a psychologist about this when I was going through depression and she told me everyone has days like this and that its normal.

 

Now when I have one of those days I tell myself that it is ok. It's normal and that tomorrow will be a great day.

 

I think the trick is to monitor the bad days and if they become more frequent then you may need to seek some counselling, or perhaps do Tools again.  

 


 

 

 

 

says: Tell a friend, like you did now...or take a deep breath meditate and pray close your eyes, take a break, a nap, enjoy a massage (!) go through the day one day at a time do the best you can work hard keep trying be gentle on yourself keep having faith and hope write your questions in My Ask... Hope you feel better soon