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Birth Date: Sat, May 16 1981

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Schools: Elementary school in Kraiburg, Gymnasium Gars, Ludwig Maximilian University Munich

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Tue, Feb 06 12:00 AM

Spiritual vs. psychological

 Hm, I just (again) realized that the whole psychological things I learn here (and learn with other books as well), have been stated by spiritual teachers since the beginning of time. It's really funny to see how psychology now gets a glimpse of how the universe and the brain works, that the spiritual/esoteric teachers had implemented so much time before them.

Really funny. ;)

That being said, I wanted to talk a bit about egoism:
I have a friend who's in a relationship that doesn't fulfill her. She wants to quit, but she's not so sure. So she wants to stay, but she's not so sure whether she can/will/should/whatever...
You see the dilemma?
As a friend I can only tell her to move her butt out of this thing if she wants to be able to look at herself in the mirror without cringing and not recognizing the face there.
When the time comes that my own view of the relationship makes me feel uncomfortable and closed in, I have to quit. I owe myself that much egoism and self-love that I shove myself on the number one position of being/becoming happy. Otherwise I cannot make another being happy.
Well, that's my point of view, concerning this topic. *g*

 

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Lovely Blog

Hi there.

 

Relationships are hard I feel.  You feel that they are not working, but for many people it is really hard to make the move and end it.  People feel like they won't meet anyone else ( never the case )  or that they can't life on their own...

 

 

Relationships ;)

Yeah, I know all the reasons and feelings that connect two people in a relationship. Believe me, they've all been told to me.

And cried to me.
And shouted at me.
I know them.
But I still believe that people only lie to themselves concerning the reasons why they stay with an abusive person, with a neglecting person or anything. They are just too lazy, too scared or too enamored of their own depressions to leave the other person.
I don't have much patience for that. *lol*