My greatest achievements in life for me are my 3 children, Ive decided that what matters most to me is being the best mom I can possibly be and being clean and sober again, going on 3 years now is a start...Ive been in and out of AA for 20 years with some sobriety in between and relapses. Im currently married to a man that literally thrives on my failures and is always ready to point them out to me and to my children,,,Nope not feeling sorry for myself, not blaming him for my addictions and bad choices, finally becoming aware that I wasted so many years trying to please this man and wanting him to love me and cherish me and all those things we think we need from another person, when really we need it from ourselves first...Maybe Im hitting my mid life crisis, maybe Im wising up, maybe Im sick and tired of being a scapegoat for a miserable person...I dont know, but me,,,Im a country girl from Oklahoma, whos a bit goofy and naieve at times but not afraid to laugh at myself or admit my faults...I love to fish, do arts and crafts..And my kids and 2 dogs Ozzy and Rocky remind me every day that its a good day to be sober and its okay to go to the local park at 40 years old and swing on the swing with everyone watcing.