My story, well that is a long and funny one!  I am hopefully passing a crossroads in my life that will set me on a course for the rest of my life.  I have recently found my "passion" or "purpose" in life and am diligently moving forward in pursuit of that dream.  That dream is golf.  I have been lucky enough to wade through the waters of life with very little effort of my own until the past year.  My goals changed in life early in the summer of 2009, and i have set forth on a mission to accomplish those goals ever since.  The path has been both rewarding and brutally painful at the same time.  I have a deep love for those close to me and a healthy group of friends that i would do anything in the world to support.  Even though the seem very distant to me at the most inopportune times i love them nonetheless.   I have also been recently let go by the woman i imagined to be my wife and soul mate.  It was 100% my fault and I take all the blame, she is the best thing that could have ever happened to me and I couldn't get out of my own way in time to prove to her that i am a man worthy of trusting, loving and spending the rest of her life with.

My past, I grew up in a wonderful family.  My parents are still together after 29 years of marriage and i have a younger sister who was wed in April of 2009 to a fantastic young man.  My life was pretty much the portrait of Americana.  Good friends, good education etc... After I graduated high school i attended the University of Oklahoma.  From there I wondered around trying to locate my place in life.  I squandered relationships, jobs, opportunities etc...  I am in no way regreting the choices i made because most would be envious of the experiences i have been able to have, and without the greatness and pain i would be nowhere near the individual i am today.

This is still a work in progress, in a perfect world, this time a year from now I will have a family on the way, and a successful career in place.