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Program Progress: Day 46
Motivated Mom's Participating:
| lets declutter some more |
| Burst of Smile Joy and laughter through Stillness |
| To daily hook up with at least one of my friends on toolstolife |
| Clean Sweep Declutter |
Areas In My Life I Want To Work On
- - Weight
- - Relationship
- - Getting in shape
- - Finances
- - Vacation
- - Education
I Want To Quit Or Control
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Keep going!
I think it is fantastic you went out on a date!! Kudos and hurrah!!
Instead of waiting for him to call, or not call, or email, or not email, or like you, or not....
(going crazy, anyone?)...
find yourself another date! And go.
smile
I am sure there are valid reasons for him not to reply immediately.
don't be sad...be positive.
I am sure you ar very good at reading signals! Have faith in yourself and SMILE.
Smile to yourself, because YOU ARE SO WORTH IT.
the e-mail will come.
I am sure
manu
I'm with Wordbird
The first defense against the "when will he call" phenomenon is to go for quantity. You're all warmed up on the date front - time to have another. My experience with men alas, tells me many are lacking in the social graces.
The thing I find most amusing is that they think they can get anyone they want - no matter what age , no matter what their shape. Women tend to be a little more accepting, but not much.
So I'd just give yourself a pat on the back for getting out in the dating scene and go for fun, not commitment right away - the commitment will come when it is right.
I agree with them...
Don't dwell on this one guy....go out and have more coffee with more guys! If I was closer, I'd go with you for sure......love the people on your music list- heck I'd hang out just to listen to your music with you! Take care, good luck w/ future dates.....
Thanks for sharing!
Mike
His Loss...Next!
Same thing happened to me. But his loss! Keep dating. Keep meeting more people and you'll find the one you've been looking for.
MY friend
OK I haven't had to "DATE" in a long time. But if I did this is what I would say...
I am tooo old to waste my time. Then tell them what you are wanting... This is what my friend did and she found the man of her dreams... after the second date, one year after divorcing. They have been married for 7 years and are very happy. That is just how I am, and I wish I had been more myself.. So above all be yourself. Right?
Going thru the same thing
Yup! I had a really great first date, we talked and talked and talked, so much in common, we had been talking online EVERY DAY for at least two hours, now, haven't heard from him. Even sent him a Thank You email and he read it but didn't reply. I will never understand the male mind - is it all about the chase afterall? I hope not, but I am being really optimistic about this, it has only been a couple of days. Can understand EXACTLY how you feel! Micci