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Notmisbhaven
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Birth Date: Wed, May 30 1945

Place of residence:
Galt CA, United States (map)

I am: Married

Schools: At 63 I am starting College the regular way, thanks Tool To Life for giving me the courage - College of Hard Knocks

Jobs: Waitress, Dancer, Human Services, Office Manager, Foster Parent and Mental Health Associate


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Member Since: 01/29/08
Last Login: 06/04/09
Viewed: 15850
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Program Progress: Day 19
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No Junk Food!!!
The Boost Challenge
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Notmisbhaven's Life List:
Being a non-drinking alcoholic, since 9/20/1997
Smoke free, since 4/5/2008
RV across America, summer in Canada
Return to College

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Tue, Nov 18 07:21 AM

It's working

 Today is a great day!  Minor problem, brakes need to be fixed, my Granddaughter is going to fix them and save many $$.I'm finding my needs are being met and some of my wants.Still having fears about college, but I'm walking through the fear and can see a light at the end of the tunnel.»

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Thu, Nov 13 07:01 AM

Fear

 Fear has stopped me cold. Through working Tools to Day 75 I had great faith that I could do anything. So I started college after 25 year laps and of course I had to pick all the classes that had to be hard with lots of home work, 14 units in all.  I've gotten behind and now am afraid t»

 
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Mon, Sep 22 07:40 AM

Success and time

 I am learning that success takes time.  Time well spent. Time to talk with my Grandaughter and explain the facts of life (I don't mean "the sex or drug one, that will come).  I mean the art of friendship, the art of self worth, the art of acepting she can't change others and t»

 
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Sun, Sep 14 02:31 PM

Making changes.

 I have started over and feel good about it.  I was on day 75 and now on day 3.  I missed using some of the tools and needed to go back and do every thing and not just what I thought was needed.   Frank Sinatra and I have one thing in common we both liked to do things "My Way»

 
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Fri, May 16 02:57 PM

Changes...

 This is a great day for reflecting on the changes in my life since entering this site.Frst I want to say I have not followed T.T.L. exactlly, so I may go back and start it again, after I follow it the best I can this time.Fianances have  changed for the better. No, I am not a millionaire yet, b»

 
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Sun, Mar 23 11:09 AM

Commitment

 Commitment is new to me in regards to my own life.  Working in the mental health field I committed to help many patients improve their lives as well with my family and friends.  My own life just seemed to happen. My commitment to Tools has changed how I think about myself and how I tr»

 
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Tue, Feb 26 06:39 PM

Getting rid of guilt...

  I have run on guilt for years, so this is a hard one for me, or I should say in the past it has been a hard one.The guilt trap with Tools is I am on day 29 and only on day 17, because of the guilt of not doing it daily I have stayed away.What I have realized is that some of the days have taken»

 
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Tue, Feb 26 06:39 PM

Getting rid of guilt...

  I have run on guilt for years, so this is a hard one for me, or I should say in the past it has been a hard one.The guilt trap with Tools is I am on day 29 and only on day 17, because of the guilt of not doing it daily I have stayed away.What I have realized is that some of the days have taken»

 
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Wed, Feb 13 12:00 AM

Days in Program 15

  I am on Day 13 ( in about an hour).   I am finally writing my first blog entry.What I did this a.m. is go back through the exercise and not skip any, nor fib on any.  I have a tendancy to do things my way.  What I have realized in the 15 days here is doing it my way hasn»