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Birth Date: Wed, May 30 1945
Place of residence:
Galt CA, United States (map)
I am: Married
Schools: At 63 I am starting College the regular way, thanks Tool To Life for giving me the courage - College of Hard Knocks
Jobs: Waitress, Dancer, Human Services, Office Manager, Foster Parent and Mental Health Associate
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Tools Program Stats:
Member Since: 01/29/08
Last Login: 06/04/09
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Program in:
Program Progress: Day 19
Member Since: 01/29/08
Last Login: 06/04/09
Viewed: 15879
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 19
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Favorite Places:
Sausalito, The Redwoods and Death Valley CA, Oregon coast, Superstion Mountains AZ, The Rocky Mountains in the spring
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Womens' Basketball, gymnastics, speed skating, these were past activites I'm a spectator now. Although I play "Hoops" with the grandkids & skate.
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Notmisbhaven's Life List:
| Being a non-drinking alcoholic, since 9/20/1997 |
| Smoke free, since 4/5/2008 |
| RV across America, summer in Canada |
| Return to College |
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My friend.....
Forgive yourself and let the guilt go. Guilt will cause so many ills and pains. And all you have to do is forgive yourself and the person that is on the other side of your guilt.
It matters not what they did, or what you allowed them to do; or vice-versa.
Release yourself from the guilt and the shame that only you carry forward in your daily life? Only then will your conscience be clear, and your heart free of the past. And what is the past? Something we cannot change.
If you are so good at making excuses, what is your excuse for not forgiving yourself?
Love yourself. I'm a complete stranger, and yet I can love you for what you are.