I ended up having a great conversation with a female that I could not STAND!
My b/f asked me if I wanted to go downstairs and chill with his neighbor and her man and just talk. We had nothing else to do that night. I was mad at first that he would ask me to do such a thing, but, I reluctantly agreed.
Now the reason I didn't like this girl is because she is very much attracted to my b/f. What a reason right? But I always thought when I was away at school if I didn't pay him a certain amount of attention that he craved from me, that he would cheat on me with this girl. But this is ONLY based on my insecurities! He always shows me how much he loves me and is happy with me in sooo many ways.
She is 25 has three kids and she gets lonely sometimes. They tend to bump into each other from time to time and he talks to her about her relationship issues and whatnot. (He doesn't share his personal business to her. He is great at picking things out of people and without having to tell the other person about himself.)
Me being in VA and him being in NY, I hated it. O yea we have a son together by the way. So I began to despise this girl because I kept on visioning them doing the do... lol
O my mind was my worst enemy! I finally went downstairs and we all three talked from 11 o clock at night to 4 am! You could imagine that we had GREAT convo. We all were laughing til our stomachs hurt! It was supposed to be a couples thing but her man left to take his nephew back home.
BUT I couldn't have imagined a better CONVO! Not only was it an eye opening experience, I made a new friend! Since then she has asked when WE were going to come down again and chill with her.
My mind was allowing me to put up this negative image of her. She is definitely a sweetheart just looking for friends and convo since she is a young single mother of 3. So I can understand.
I trust my fiancee very much and if something WERE to happen, it would definitely be his loss and HE would have to live with himself for that.
I could say that this situation was an OPPORTUNITY for me to get to know her and step out of my little comfort zone. I love it!