Kayla:

Thank you for your great attitude

My heart is with you. Being the caregiver can be very physically and emotionally draining, maybe even more difficult than being ill.  I know, because I am a cancer survivor and I am now the caregiver for my husband.

You have a great attitude! 

Yes, your son's and husband's circumstances are definitely real problems.  Still, they might end up being opportunities.  I would have bristled to hear this early on in my struggle to survive, especially when infection knocked me out of the work arena, especially when we moved from being fairly comfortable financially to not being able to cover all of our basic expenses... Four months away from the anniversary of my diagnosis, I can say that there really were opportunities in this experience as much as there were hardships.

ImaCountryGirl:

A hug in my heart for you...

I cannot say that I understand everything you are going through, but I can say that I understand you are going through it. 

I cried when I read about what you and your family are going through, it touched my heart.  I can only offer my support from afar, but I offer that.

This makes me realize how much I take for granted and how precious every moment we have is. 

I think it is wonderful that your day is beautiful.  It is easy to have beautiful days when life is good, it is a triumph of the human spirit to still see beauty when life is not so kind to us and those we love. 

I'm sending a hug from one addict to another. 

Beverly

Sending you lots of love

Onlyme:

Thank you Kayla and Beverly.

Thank you so much for your kind words. Kayla you sound like a survivor too and you also have a great attitude.

Beverly I try to remember that the darkest cloud still has a silver lining.

I wanted to post photos of both my husband and son but then I thought that it might upset some of the viewers. I want to keep this board positive.

I really enjoyed my shopping for music so much this afternoon. WE have different tastes in music.  From clasical (me) to country (my hubby)LOL.

Have a great day everyone that reads this post.

Onlyme

biggiece:

Hello

I just want to say that I admire you for your positive attitude even though you have some things going on your life right now that not to good. Tools to me is here to help people like you, I and others that need that help. Mostly I think it is to keep us on a positive road in every aspect of our lives. I just want offer my encouragement by telling you to hang in there and stay positive and remember you do have help out here in tools land. Keep strong and write anytime you want to even if you just want to get things off you mind.

You're not alone

Cloudy:

Hugs

I admire you and know for sure that God is with you who has given you such beautiful qualities. I wish you all the greatest happiness. May you be a child closest to God... His favourite. I have a lot to learn from you

Sending you a hug

jetall:

hugs

Sending you a hug