10 years ago in Germany there was a big train accident, or better: a catastrophe with 101 casualties. It happened close to the now famous town Eschede. The trail did not produce satisfying results. Until today the responsible corporation never apologized, despite the disaster could have been prevented (better management and decision making).
A sister of one of the casualties told on TV a nice proverb:
When you forgive you free a prisoner and then you realize you have been that prisoner.