Why does it always seem that the hardest thing to do is let something go.  The guy that I have written about several times I ended it with last night.  I called him and simply ask if he would tell me if he was interested or not.  He said, "why are you laying this on me."  I don't want a serious relationship and I am moving back home."  "I can't tell you what will happen with us." 

How can you not tell someone what will happen????  Isn't it human kindness to tell someone the truth.  I told him that I couldn't get over him until I knew the truth.  "He also said I feel like you want an answer right now."  "You want to ride off into the sunset or something."  After he said all of that, to include that I was driving him crazy.  I told him that I would never call him again.  I was in love with him and it hurts that he did not reciprocate those same feelings.  We slept together once so that feeling of being used is also there.  I feel like I was so stupid.  I know that I can't take the words back and I can't take the action back but I wish that I could.  I think I viewed him as a lost dog that I was trying to save.  He seems to live a very lonely life.  But I realized you can't save someone if they don't want to be saved.  Thanks for listening, just wanted to give an update.

Rhonda