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Day 40 - The Cards I Have Been Dealt

 

 

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Thu, Jun 26 11:08 AM

Day 40 - The Cards I Have Been Dealt

 

I had to really think about today's Coach's Question.  Are the cards I have been dealt good, unfair, or crappy?  My answer....all three, but ultimately, only one.

 

My cards are crappy.  I have to work very, very hard to get what I want.  I have some very significant  issues that seem to have no solution.   Life sometimes seems like a constant struggle.

 

My cards are unfair.  Literally, from my infancy I had great struggles.  My childhood was often painful and unfair.  I was unprepared for adult life and spent years floundering and screwing up because I got almost no help from those who should have cared most.

 

My cards are good.  In fact, they're great.  I have work I love.  I have amazing children.   I am respected for what I do professionally.  I am healthy.  I have money and friends and potential and hope.  

 

My decision then is to pick one of the three decks.  I choose the good cards; I choose the good perspective and the good attitude.   I will put the other decks down and have good cards

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Good choice!

I also have had a hard time overcoming a difficult childhood. Lately, instead of simply disgarding the whole experience as painful and not really worth wasting any time over, I have started to see the value in all of my experiences. I learned many lessons in my early development while under a huge amount of stress, expecially for a little person. In the long run, I can see how those experiences gave me some of my best personality characteristics, of course I realize that my greatest strengths can sometimes be weaknesses, still, here they are:

I'm a figther, I never give up on trying to do the next best thing.

I am very optimistic because I had to be from day one in order to overcome so much negativity and keep on going.

I don't expect too much from others.

I want to contribute all the good I can to my life experience, regardless of what I feel I have or haven't received in the past. 

I am extremely empathetic, compassionate, nurturing.

I believe in the inate goodness of myself and others.

I believe there is a force in the Universe that has our best interests at heart.

I would love to hear what valuable character traits your difficulties instilled in you. Please share.

Attitude

At the end of the day , it's all about attitude,

you choose your attitude, and you've chosen to have a good one.

 

martind43

You can do it, keep going! You can do it, keep going!

You inspire us

Wow, thanks for that encouraging blog!