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Birth Date: Sun, Aug 05 1973
Place of residence:
Salem Oregon, United States (map)
I am: In Relationship
Schools: McNary High
Jobs: I have been a server for about 9 years now. I've worked @ IHOP, Sharie's, and Applebee's. Have yet to break that that 3yr. mark. I am also a mother of 4 wonderful children,3 boys(7,9,&almost 14) 1 girl,13. I am also a loving mate for a very deserving man.
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Member Since: 07/19/08
Last Login: 09/18/09
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Member Since: 07/19/08
Last Login: 09/18/09
Viewed: 34108
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 44
Sahndra_om's Challenges:
Sahndra_om's Participating:
Sahndra_om's Participating:
| Having Fun Fine Tuning and Balancing our lives |
| Hit Gym; Get Strong; Exercise; Lose Weight Phase II |
| lets declutter some more |
| Burst of Smile Joy and laughter through Stillness |
Personal Interests:
Music:
Pink Floyd, Tricky, Enigma, Rehab, Black Eyed Peas, Sting, the list goes on and on. I can do without twangy country and some rap but other than that music is beauty!
Books:
The Magic of Believing, The Secret, 2150, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Medicine Woman Inner Guidebook, Think and Grow rich, Education of Over Soul Seven
Favorite Places:
I Want To See:
The pyramids, Stone henge, Yellowstone, Grand canyon, all tropical places, and I would like to take a cruise to see ancient glaciers. Anything wondrous and beautiful.
Hobbies:
Making jewelry(beading @hemp), drawing abstract art, Following my inspirations, road trips, and now SELF!
Activities:
Sports:
Movies:
Labyrinth, Austin Powers(all three), Happy Madison films(Adam Sandler), Pulp Fiction, Dark Chrystal, THE SECRET
TV:
Malcome in the Middle, Dharma and Greg, That 70's Show, Price Is Right, Mad T.V.(anything on Comedy Central). I like the History and Discovery channels as well.
Heroes:
I Want To Meet:
Sahndra_om's Life List:
| To be the best mom I can, because they are the future. |
| Reach my ideal weight |
| Own a nice home of my own |
| Have a fruitful garden/greenhouse |
| Learn to cook more |
| Speak and read Spanish |
| Be able to have time for and pay for my kids to do extracurricular activities. |
| Travel the world to experience new cultures |
| Write an inspiring novel |
| Have a wonderful wedding |
| Find ways to be of service to others |
| To own a place that I can showcase/sell my art /jewelry along w/other wonderful artists in my community |
| Become a healing touch therapist |
| Always appreciate and enjoy the journey of life |
comments
Oh my goodness...
Sahndra,
My goodness...how amazing is this...receiving your first birthday card from your Mom.
I'm so happy for you.
I am bringing you a ray of beautiful sunshine to represent what could possibly get created with your Mother/Daugher relationship for the future.
No matter what bumps may occur, allow the rays of sunshine to brighten your way...how you see things...the hope of what's possible.
Many loving blessings,
Dr. Debbie
Thank you for the personal email...it meant allot to me to receive it and be a part of this very important moment with you.
Life: Complicated but It is what it is!
Sahndra, I can only imagine all the mixed and jumbled emotions going on in you. Just remember that Biology does not make a parent, LOVE DOES. Yes, your mother is always your mother - Actions are the gage to real love and devotion. Go with your heart and with your instincts - they will tell you how to react and to deal with these situations, first instincts are often the most correct for us - follow that inner voice, it will give you guidance. Micci
Happy for you!
I am happy for you and glad at the way you are handling it. I hope and wish you well and happiness!!
reaching out
What a journey you have had. I agree our mother is our mother no matter what and if you can love her despite all her limitations, you will help fill that place inside of yourself that she was not able to fill.
Sometimes as people get older they realize things--they drop some of their fears and hardnesses and self-criticism, and really see what is valuable. I hope this is the case...it seems perhaps...for her.
It sound like she cannot give very much. But she has reached out to you in the ways she can. That really brings tears to my eyes for both of you.
and another thing...
P.S. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Your Real First Birthday
You are a dear precious child of God-Creation-Source... Your story is a conformation of something I feel about Life.
It takes two people to create a life... it takes Love (that may take years to receive) to give you Birth...to the wonder of life.
And so it is a treasure to read of your "Birth" day with your Mother.
Without love we are nothing, thank you for sharing yours.
Sending you lots of love
so2u