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Birth Date: Sun, Aug 05 1973
Place of residence:
Salem Oregon, United States (map)
I am: In Relationship
Schools: McNary High
Jobs: I have been a server for about 9 years now. I've worked @ IHOP, Sharie's, and Applebee's. Have yet to break that that 3yr. mark. I am also a mother of 4 wonderful children,3 boys(7,9,&almost 14) 1 girl,13. I am also a loving mate for a very deserving man.
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Member Since: 07/19/08
Last Login: 09/18/09
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Member Since: 07/19/08
Last Login: 09/18/09
Viewed: 34109
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 44
Sahndra_om's Challenges:
Sahndra_om's Participating:
Sahndra_om's Participating:
| Having Fun Fine Tuning and Balancing our lives |
| Hit Gym; Get Strong; Exercise; Lose Weight Phase II |
| lets declutter some more |
| Burst of Smile Joy and laughter through Stillness |
Personal Interests:
Music:
Pink Floyd, Tricky, Enigma, Rehab, Black Eyed Peas, Sting, the list goes on and on. I can do without twangy country and some rap but other than that music is beauty!
Books:
The Magic of Believing, The Secret, 2150, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Medicine Woman Inner Guidebook, Think and Grow rich, Education of Over Soul Seven
Favorite Places:
I Want To See:
The pyramids, Stone henge, Yellowstone, Grand canyon, all tropical places, and I would like to take a cruise to see ancient glaciers. Anything wondrous and beautiful.
Hobbies:
Making jewelry(beading @hemp), drawing abstract art, Following my inspirations, road trips, and now SELF!
Activities:
Sports:
Movies:
Labyrinth, Austin Powers(all three), Happy Madison films(Adam Sandler), Pulp Fiction, Dark Chrystal, THE SECRET
TV:
Malcome in the Middle, Dharma and Greg, That 70's Show, Price Is Right, Mad T.V.(anything on Comedy Central). I like the History and Discovery channels as well.
Heroes:
I Want To Meet:
Sahndra_om's Life List:
| To be the best mom I can, because they are the future. |
| Reach my ideal weight |
| Own a nice home of my own |
| Have a fruitful garden/greenhouse |
| Learn to cook more |
| Speak and read Spanish |
| Be able to have time for and pay for my kids to do extracurricular activities. |
| Travel the world to experience new cultures |
| Write an inspiring novel |
| Have a wonderful wedding |
| Find ways to be of service to others |
| To own a place that I can showcase/sell my art /jewelry along w/other wonderful artists in my community |
| Become a healing touch therapist |
| Always appreciate and enjoy the journey of life |
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precious now
I hear such a mix of emotions. You will find and choose your way. I hope you can let it be enough that she has made contact for the first time. Just BE with her. Get to know her. Share some simple moments perhaps shopping or something you both like to do.
Like your beautiful butterfly, this relationship is new and quite vulnerable and fragile. Don't ask too much of it all at once.
Because, if she were capable of explaining, or wished to, she would have, by now. So you could really push her away by staying stuck on that. There IS no explanation is there? Except at the time, in her circumstances, she felt it was the right thing to do. Nothing she could say would give you back all those years you lost, or make you say, "OH, okay, well then it's all right you left me."
So...I want to offer that you work this through before her visit, and then let it go unless she brings it up. That would be true forgiveness. She did not leave the you you are now. She is wanting to connect with that person. Then you can share the NOW together. How precious! Later...perhaps you will have formed enough trust she will be able to answer your questions. Or maybe, she will just need it to be enough that she is here, now, today. In a way, that is both asking your forgiveness, and moving closer to you. Without words.
I needed that...
Thank you!!