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Birth Date: Mon, Jun 10 1963

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Schools: SUNY Delhi Class of '83

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Sun, Dec 02 12:00 AM

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I joined tools to help with my relationship, but as I learned to change anything in your life you have to change yourself.

 

So 4 months later I feel like my relationship is moving in the right direction. Because of the changes I made,  my partner feels more comfortable and at ease in our relationship (he's spending evenings at home by choice). We are starting to laugh together again, rather than everything being so serious. I let him inspire my artwork and he found a market for it (I allowed him to influence me and participate in my hobby).  I'm starting to finally feel like a couple again.

 

In other parts of my life - I finally got a schedule change I've wanted for over a year now - I start Monday!!!

 

I feel empowered, happy and in control, for maybe the first time in my life.  It feels great. 

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jipsymoth jipsymoth:

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What a great and empowering story!  Thank you for sharing it.  I just started the program and I have high hopes about improving myself and my life as well.

 

Good luck tomorrow with your schedule change, enjoy your success!

autumn mist autumn mist:

THAT IS JUST WONDERFUL!

Hi there Smiley,

 

Ain't that awesome!  How lovely, really nice.  Changing for changes.  That is exactly what is needed for a fulfilled life.  Personal life?  Check, it's good and fun.  Career growth?  Check, it's dutifully ascending.  The final (job/business, whichever one)?  Check, it must have been the best.  Of course, you feel empowered, in control and feeling great.  Happy for you, girl!  Keep it up.  Meanwhile, keep on doing those morning starters, have a great day, Missy!

 

Cheers,

Autumn MistKiss 

 

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