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Birth Date: Mon, Dec 16 1974

Place of residence:
Strand Western Cape, South Africa (map)

I am: Married

Schools: Stellenbosch

Jobs: Operations Manager


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Member Since: 10/28/08
Last Login: 10/31/08
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Spirit's Life List:
Quit smoking
Overcome my addictions
Time management
Reach my business objective
Save my marriage
Buy a house
Get my drivers licence
Buy a car
Get financially independent
have a holiday
Buy my wife what she needs
provide work for the unemployed
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That's a lot of quitting to do all at once...if you can, start by simply spending more time with your wife - look to reconnect in what you saw in each other to begin with. Good luck!

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I am a porn and masturbation addict and I am smoking. I would like to quit all of these things. I am sure that it has affected my marriage and I believe that my wife will be leaving soon. She is already staying with her mother for the last three weeks.

I joined TOOLS because:
 I need help to get over my addictions and to make a positive change in my life.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 My own company. I am an entrepreneur.
My favorite wild animal is:
 Eagle
Why (describe as much as possible):
 Eagles are winners. They soar high above the earth and look down to catch their prey. They built their nest high up in the mountains and they are tough on their small.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 none.
Why:
 I cant look after pets, I dont have a sense of responsibility in that department.
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 a mild lambs curry
Why:
 Because I love fragrant food
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 Paul, Silas, Moses, Daniel and Salomo.
Why:
 To find the wisdom to get to heaven
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 London
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 anything with chicken, except Tandoori chicken
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 mocktail
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 cappucino
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 wisdom, love;business sense
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Hillsongs;Rebecca St. James; Michael W. Smith
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 Tell them about God
A sunset I remember:
 Cape Town
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 the good guy
Why:
 because it is the right thing to do!