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Birth Date: Thu, Sep 18

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Tue, Jan 08 12:00 AM

Clutter in my life

 Winter days, long and drearie.  Even the cat doesn't want to go outside.  I wanted to stay in my nest for the whole day.  But this is a great day and I will soon have reached past my morning depression.  The thing I really don't like about being single is the morning.  It is the only time that I could actually be lonely.    Big Girls don't cry and so I will find a way to accept that I live alone. And I will find the resolve to stay that way.  Mornings are the one time I allow the thought of sharing my life again to enter my head.  While I drink my coffee and check the email.  Once a phyco has turned the world upside down, it is not possible to ever be sure again what is real and what is a lie.  I think I will learn how to rely only on myself.  Now that is sad.  It is also optomistic.  Because I can do it....but I will have another coffee first.

 

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Been there.

Stay strong and know that you have support and sisters out here.  Now that you are single what would the perfect morning wake routine look like for you? I found that warm slippers, a nice fluffy robe and a reading from Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach to do that first cup of the morning helped me shift the focus for the moment and the day.  Just hang in there and we will all make it through.

 

Pearl

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Hi Sunshine Girl,

 

I am also single, and never really thought about the morning's being lonely and not having someone to share my life with. 

 

After I split with my boyfriend I felt like there was a huge hole in my life, like without him, I wasn't a person with any individual interests, hobbies or life of my own.  But in time (about the space of a year), I had turned my life around, I took up art, something I really wanted to do, made a new friend in America, a fellow artist who just happens to live across the ocean away from me (I'm in England), I have re-arranged my home, discovered new ideas, hobbies, and things to fill my life.  I now no longer feel the need for a man in my life, I'm a complete person in my own right. 

 

Now if someone comes along I'm interested in, they will discover and get to know me, as an individual person with a life of my own, and I may choose to invite them in, where they must respect me and my life, and I feel a stronger person because of it.

 

I hope this helps you.

 

Green Raven :)