I have a new attitude at work... I don't worry anymore if everyone likes me.  I do my job, don't take anything personally.. this makes everything go so much better.  I used to cry when I got mad at things that happened at work,  not anymore!!  I feel so much stronger and in control of myself.  I stand up for myself now, I am not going to be anyone,s doormat.  I've learned that I can only control what I think and not what others think