Hi, guest!
Join Now
Login
Password

forgotten your password?

Join Now What is Love? by Victoria
 
Victoria
# # # #

Birth Date: Thu, Mar 07 1968

Place of residence:
Caloundra QLD, Australia (map)

I am: Married

Schools: Nelson College for Girls, Tawa College, New Zealand

Jobs: Have my own CandleMaking Business - Hand Pouring my own All Natural Candles, Web Design, Desktop Publishing, Legal Sec,

update »

#

Certificates:
Tools Program Stats:
Member Since: 10/21/06
Last Login: 12/15/07
Viewed: 10183
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 46
Victoria's Challenges:

Victoria's Participating:
Personal Interests:
Music:
 
Books:
 
Favorite Places:
 
I Want To See:
 
Hobbies:
 
Activities:
 
Sports:
 
Movies:
 
TV:
 
Heroes:
 
I Want To Meet:
 
update »
Tools Goal List:

Areas In My Life I Want To Work On

I Want To Quit Or Control

Skills I Am Interested In

I Suffer From

update »
Victoria's Life List:
update »

Info

 

Archives

 
What is Love?

 

 

1
cheers
cheer it
Victoria

  Victoria

Mon, Aug 13 12:00 AM

What is Love?

 

Hi....I haven't disappeared off the face of the earth, just been a bit caught up in "life" well now I'm again on track and loving "Tools to Life". 

 

Today I wanted to touch on the excellent subject of Day 37 "Love"  a great and interesting subject.  I recently attended a seminar (The MentalToolbox) I won a couple of tickets to the weekend and thou my husband wouldn't come with me he was cool to stay home with our 3 little ones.  

 

One of  the activites we had to do was pick a person we didn't know in the audience and sit knee to knee, stare intently into each others eyes without breaking eye contact and when asked the question "What is Love" the other person talked for 5 minutes continuously on the subject without breaking eye contact, then we had 5 minutes of silence and then the next person was asked the question.... this went on for about 7 times each, needless to say I wanted to strangle the course facilitator.... No seriously!!! it was fantastic, first was all the surface fluff that came with telling someone your interpretation of love then it got very deep, there were tissues and tears and it was very cleansing....I thoroughly enjoyed the exercise and toward the end I felt like I had really connected with the true person not the surface person of the guy I had picked from the crowd to do this exercise with.    

 

Thanks so very much Tools for Life....Devlyn ... and of course myself, for I am truely learning to love MYSELF.

 

Love and Light

Victoria 

# Comment (2) # View (163) # Show support

# Tags:

 

This post is cheered by:



 

comments

Starling Starling:

Loving yourself

We have a small support group here in my over 55 community. I've chosen to lead them in a week or two on the subject of loving yourself. I'm collecting stuff to use to make the whole thing interesting.

 

Why don't we all learn to love ourselves? I'm really not sure, but I know that it is very, very important if we are going to go anywhere with the things we want to happen in our lives.

 

Starling

Wordbird Wordbird:

Hi You

Sending you a hug Sending you a hug

 

Hey I see you are online. Wonderful story about the workshop. you have grown so much in self-love and I think a gentle confidence. It's wonderful. Luv ya, Wordbird