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Birth Date: Mon, Mar 10 1969

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oregon city oregon, United States (map)

I am: Married

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Hunting, Fishing, outdoors

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2010-01-22 08:20:26

Florabierta

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Hello - I was just stoppin in to say Hi and well I hope things are going well for you!!! You can do it!!!

2010-01-22 08:20:26

Florabierta

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Hello - I was just stoppin in to say Hi and well I hope things are going well for you!!! You can do it!!!

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2010-02-25 13:07:23

jpolet

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Sweet picture bro. I like to spend a bit of time outdoors myself, big BOOST to you! Good luck bro

2010-02-15 12:41:45

jeffb

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COME ON MAN YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS , I KNOW OYU CAN!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-01-19 22:27:39

glitterlane

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thanks for the support!

2010-01-19 07:43:56

jeffb

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Good luck as you go to war!

2010-01-12 07:07:23

jeffb

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Thanks for joining tools its nice to know your friends are on the same track as you , now lets do this!

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My Story........What to write.....Where to begin.....

So I find myself in a place that I never expected nor wanted to be in. After 14 years of marriage, 3 beautiful children, I am now going through a divorce. Though the immediate cause of the divorce is mine to own via an affair, it follows 10 years of being pushed away. It honestly has felt for a long while that the only reason my wife has stayed with me is for financial reasons and so that I am there to do what she needs/wants me to do for her. For as long as I can remember life has been a one way street. I do for her, and she expects more, and more, and more. She seems to never be happy with her own life, so therefore it falls on me to follow her in what she wants next. Yes, it is a never ending cycle.

I now realize that I have always been an enabler and that I have developed or at least supported this activity.

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I joined TOOLS because:

I realize that my actions are the cause of my miseries. If I do not change the way I operate, I will continue to hurt myself and the ones that I love.

You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:

My dream job would be a low stress high mental reward job that would most definately take place outside.

My favorite wild animal is:

Woodduck.

Why (describe as much as possible):

They are a beautiful creature and always found in pairs even in flock.

My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):

Chocolate lab

Why:

They are always happy to see you. They know when you are down. They are loyal, loving, protective, and will give you everything if you will just love them for who they are.

A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:

Slab O Beef

Why:

Simple, nourishing, tasty

Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::

Mckenna, Dillon, Kody

Why:

They are my children and they are what is most important to me in my life.

If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:

Germany. I have always wanted to visit there and see where my family came from.

My perfect slice of pizza is:

Absolutely LOADED

You are at a bar. You order this drink:

Southern Comfort and Coke

You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:

20oz Latte

If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):

Change devistating decisions in my life, Go back and focus on what is important, Never allow me to make the choices that I have made again.

You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):

Journey, Bonnie Tyler (Total Eclipse of the Heart), Def Leopard

A sunset I remember:

On the farm looking west and seeing every rich deep color there is scattered through the many layers of clouds

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