says: The first step is the desire to stay on task by asking the question in the beginning. So in a sense you already are light years ahead of those that don't even care or realize they stray off task. The real answer is finding out what works for you so you can own it. Advice tends to slip away and not take because it's hard to own what someone else tells us. Answers come when a person asks you questions and repeats your answers back to you. Unfortunately you need a special person who knows how to believe in you and your answers. In time the answer will become clear, the one that really will work for you. You can also find the answer to staying on task by listening to your inner voice and having an open heart and open mind to that inner voice. We are powerful when we believe in ourselves.