tammydickinson at 2008-02-25

says: Your 15 not 16, that is how much you are living in the future as of today. Why not live in the 'now' and enjoy each day? Growing up to fast distracts from enjoying the journey. Making decisions based on a relationship with a boy at such a young age is so hard to see the cause and effect. But the ripples can be life altering if that is the only/main reason for your focus. Why not focus on the deeper longer lasting things, like the friendship part. Try not talking about 'love' for 30 days and see what you have to focus on without that being the conversation piece. If you can have a fun, meaningful friendship without ever talking about how much you 'love' the other person you might see more of what this relationship is on the inside. Hormones can really mess up the glasses we see through. Hard to know that now at 15, but trust me. You will be 16, then 17, then 18...then...you get the picture...don't limit your view. It's a big beautiful colorful world and you should honor yourself by stopping and smelling the flowers and air from each vantage point.