My name is Becca.  I am currently staying at my parents again (at the age of 34!) after divorcing my husband of 8 years and moving back to Pennsylvania from North Carolina.  I am basically starting all over again, but feel good about the process.  (Most days.) 

I've got the car that I want, the job that I want, now I've just got to get the money that I want, the body that I want (back!), and the house that I want.  Oh, and the man that I want.  ... don't know who he is yet, but he's out there.

I've got a 15 y/o daughter who's got a tough exterior and sometimes it's very trying to deal with her.  But, other times we have the most relaxed conversations, laugh, and joke and I feel like things will be ok.

I am the oldest of 5 kids (2 younger brothers & 2 younger sisters), who grew up kinda poor and in a very religious family.  Smoking @ 14 and getting pregnant before graduating high school started my path down the "dark side", but I also graduated with high honors, and am the only one of my siblings (so far!) to graduate from college. 

I was married for 8 years to someone not very fun to live with, but finally said enough is enough and left.  I haven't looked back since.