I work as a Database Analyst, when home I play facebook games, guitar and Wii games and spend time with my wife. I have lost 25lbs in a company weight loss challenge and would like to continue this, but have gained about 5 lbs back so far. I enjoy working with computers and solving problems and prefer not work with the public. 

Since I have low self esteem I am really nice to people so they will accept me and be my friend. I guess I feel I have nothing else to add to my relationships.

I grew up with a father that drank, my parents never really showed me any affection that I can remember. They never really cared about my grades in school, the only rule I remember them having was a curfew. My dad would keep me and my brother up at night blasting music and walking around talking to everyone. We would try to shut our door so we could get some sleep so we could go to school the next day. He'd push the door open and remind us that he owned the house. Mom was afraid to cross dad and we hide many things from him so he would not know.  The only hug I got from my parents that I remember was when I graduated college. 

My parents always bought me nice things, they told me to pick out whatever I wanted to drive when I turned 16. I chose a $28,000 Ford Explorer. 

My Past relationships have all been the same, I was been cheated on by most of the gfs. I will be a really nice guy because I feel that I have nothing else going for me and that's what gets me in trouble I think. That and I'm a pushover and put too much trust in people.