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Birth Date: Wed, Jan 17 1962

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  cedric

Tue, Jan 08 12:00 AM

day 37

 

I put some thought into Day 37 so thought I'd share the exercise. The whole ToolBox was painful as I am separated as a result of my failings in my marriage so what I write is aspirtaional not bragging, written in the spirit of Coach Steeles exercise:

 

I am tall dark and handsome! I smell good with nice aftershave and dressed conservatively, tastefully in quality simple clothes. I'm slim and in good shape, clean shaven and neat. I move carefully, deliberately, not rushing. I find good restaurants, good concerts, good exhibitions and savour the experience and open to seeing or tasting the things others chose, always open to broaden my experience.The person I'm with deserves and receives my full attention and I am civil and courteous, interested, keener to understand their perspective than to convey my own. I make good conversation and when I do share my views or experiences I am keen to do so in an open and honest way so that the whole conversation is a positive experience.

 

I also wrote about my ideal partner but I won't share that! (especially as someone elses blog accused some users of this site of misusing it for dating! thats not my agenda!)

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WONDERFUL

I really like your paragraph. Are you taping it and then listening to it twice a day? I did mine and I keep it in the car and listen to it there. It is great. You did great.

 

 

You deserve a star You deserve a star

I second Moonshadow :-)

Awesome stuff - yes please tape it, recite it;   whatever, just reinforce it to yourself because you are so worth this paragraph.

 

I am SO proud of your achievement with this, and I also note with pleasure and pride in your achievement, that you have well and truly leap frogged me in tools days achievements - well done Cedric!!!!

 

 

Best Regards always

taedi :-) 

THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN' ABOUT!

Alright Cedric!

What a fantastic way to see yourself! That's EXACTLY who you are. Visualize that man. He's you, you're him.  There is nothing you can't accomplish! Way to go!!!

Jay

Are you reinforcing this?

Hey Cedric :-)

 

always, lotsa smiles for you!!

 

Please, tell us you are cultivating this special guy, that he is feeding on the positive support of his peers, and that he believes his own script!  Go get your future Cedric, because I and a whole lot of us here in tools land, know YOU CAN DO IT!

 

A xx